The lives we live are the stories we tell.
So if you want to tell a better story, start living a life you'd love to talk about.
What are you - the main character - racing toward? What do you want to be able to say about yourself?
Do you want a meaningful career? A committed relationship? A legacy of service or giving? You don't just need to change jobs, boyfriends, or hobbies. You need to set the stage for the story of your dreams to take place.
You won't magically end up in the right story. You have to deliberately go live it.